I LOVE DOING THIS ARTICLE……
Broken homes are very common and it even just a past by news if people heard about broken homes. I've been married for more than twenty years already and I can say that between me and my husband, our love never changed although our marriage have been tested beyond the imagination of ordinary person. I lost my eldest son because of brain tumor, he was six years old already, at that time my daughter was only three years, she cannot expressed what she felt but after losing her older brother she feels the emptiness and always been quiet. As she grows, she learned to express her emptiness and seeking for the presence of another child in our house. But I was hesitant to have another baby, I just keep on looking for alternatives, just like buying big dolls and borrowing baby from our neighbor and let it stay in our house for the whole day. Those steps were effective in the beginning until she was seven, eight years old, she already refuses to accept my options. So we come to decide to have another baby in our house. Before she turned nine years old I got pregnant, we were so happy and been taking care of the baby inside. We were so excited to wait for the day that I will give birth but at the seventh months of my pregnancy I got bleeding and the Doctors were too late to decide for my CS, my was suffering air shortage inside,,,,he grew so sickly… Now he is ten years old.. .but he cannot walk yet… he is in a CP condition and we are on struggle to sustain his therapy and his studies.
I am doing this article long enough so that I can give the views that getting married is not just for good times. Remember what we promise during our vows, FOR BETTER OR WORSE, FOR RICHER OR POORER, TILL DEATH DO US PART… We are bound for the promises we made, because we made the promises not only to the people who witness our wedding but we made our promises to the Holy Spirit which is endless. I don't think that the love is changing, but what I always see ….IT IS HUMAN IDEAS THAT ARE CHANGING… and that includes that desires to be together with the person you promise to stay forever. In losing the desires, that is where you will fine yourself to have an affair for the one whom you thought that will give you the comfort that you are looking for.
You become irresponsible instead of holding your hands together to face the trials where you already have promised to bear with together no matter what. But you ideas are changing and you become a person who is married but lonely . Why not look back where both of you started with, so that both of you can patch up the things that have to be resolved. It is too disappointing when the person's ideas are changing and the changes involves the family status. And because of the shaken status you allow yourself of being a married women looking for men whom you thought can relieve the sad feelings that you have right now. Having an affair with other man or woman is not the right answer for any problems of the family. It is just that, both of you were not so sincere with your promises. Both of your ideas were changing and the changes are affecting your family relationships. I never see any person who become proud because they belong to the broken homes. Although I am having so much pain with the situations that we have but I always put my hands together in prayers so that me and my husband can keep our vows together as what we have promise. I have not much to share about abundance of the family but I can say we are very rich of love to each other. And I always have the desire to help those shaken family. Both husband and wife needs a reliable advise to patch up everything. And as I go on I always wish for a family to be together, in any faces of trials they could have as a family… I want to say to everyone… you can do it…
"LET US SAVE OUR FAMILY"